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☝Why People Have Relationship Problems👆

58 views · Published 25 October 2016 · 7:36 · Indexed 8 November 2026

Channel: Trenius Henderson · 2016 · Howto & Style

So you’ve found the perfect person you want to commit to? Congratulations! Haven’t found them yet? No worries! The information I’m about to share will be priceless when the time comes (and it will!).

It’s important to set goals for your relationship if you want a happy, long-lasting one with your partner. Unfortunately, not everyone knows the right goals to establish in order to “drive the relationship bus” to the desired destination of enduring bliss. In fact, many people go into a relationship without any real idea of what they are doing or where they want to be going. To help with this, I’ve listed five essential things that everyone who is in a relationship (or wants to be) should know — about themselves, about the other person and about the relationship. The beauty of these steps is that you needn’t know them before getting into a relationship. You can be married for years before you learn them — it doesn’t matter as long as you DO learn and subsequently apply the higher aspects of each one.

The five things you MUST KNOW as a means to a happy, enduring relationship are:

1. Your relationship purpose. What is your purpose in being together? Believe me, many people, if they are truly honest with themselves, will find they are looking to get some need(s) met. This is not healthy nor will it create a lasting bond. Your goal should be that your relationship purpose will embody mutual support, appreciative love, sharing of life and synergistic union. NOT to have your needs met.

2. Your primary level of love. There are three levels of love within relationships. The first one is fear — which isn’t really a level of love at all. People who come together (one or both) in a relationship out of fear of being alone, fear of not being able to support themselves, etc. are doomed to failure. This is the least healthy level possible. The second level is ego-based love. This level is still unhealthy as it is based upon illusions and false presumptions. The ego is insatiable which means that you will rarely — if ever — find peace and contentment with “the way things are.” The ego always wants to find something wrong, not good enough, etc. and will always seek some sort of validation. The third level is soul-based love. This is genuine and pure and is the highest level to attain. Soul-based love comes from wholeness within one’s self — where a great sense of self-love, self-acceptance and self-approval is possessed. You are not looking to your partner for anything other than to share this love and companionship. Period.http://www.huffingtonpost.com/pamela-dussault/5-essential-steps-to-a-happy-relationship_b_5246987.html

Written By: Pamela Dussault

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