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Dating Confidence Stop Ignoring And Start Boldly Showing Up

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Channel: Dr. Aziz Gazipura · 2015 · Howto & Style

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[It’s very common, when dealing with the topic of dating and relationships, to hear people say that you should try to “play it cool.” What they mean by this is that you should ignore the person you’re attracted to so that you don’t seem too eager (desperate).

While that may work for some people, many of us end up using the “play it cool” tactic as an excuse to hang back and wait for the other person to come to us. We play it so “cool” that we end up standing by ourselves in a corner all night and missing out on opportunities to connect with someone who might be perfect for us. This is a big mistake.

Today, we're going to dive into the topic of confidence in dating. More specifically, we’re going to discuss how to not play it cool—how to show up boldly and go after the things you want.

This is an area that so many of my clients find puzzling. I struggled with this idea for a long time as well, and it’s no surprise because we’ve been trained to think that showing enthusiasm or excitement about something us uncool.

Let’s say you’re out and about, and you spot an acquaintance you’ve always wanted to ask out on a date. What do you do? Maybe you get into her line of sight hoping that she’ll see you and initiate a conversation. After all, you don’t want to seem desperate, right? If she’s not too busy and she’s into you, she’ll say hi.

If this is the approach you’d like to take, then you are not alone . . . I used to think this was a pretty smart move, myself. The problem: it’s not doing very much to help your cause.

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