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CHEATING HUSBANDS/BOYFRIENDS - Why Blame the Other Woman?

4,952 views · Published 24 June 2018 · 48:09 · Indexed 6 November 2026

Channel: Relationship Coach Deborrah Cooper · 2018 · Education

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Why is it that when their boyfriend or husband cheats on them with another woman, most wives or girlfriends will get angry at and blame the other woman for being a "home wrecker" and "not respecting my relationship!" 

Isn't it more accurate to say that the one who wrecked your home, destroyed your family, broke your heart, and had no respect for your relationship is your husband or boyfriend?

A down to earth very real analysis of the codependent mindset of millions of women when it comes to making men be accountable for their actions and responsible for their choices. Let's get back to expecting men to have integrity and to honor their commitments and vows.

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