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How To Handle A Really Bad Interaction With Your Ex

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Channel: Chris Seiter · 2018 · People & Blogs

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How To Handle A Really Bad Interaction With Your Ex 

If you've had a bad interaction with your ex you are in the right place. I am going to help you correct your situation and get you in the best mainframe so that your next contact with your ex is better. One bad interaction with your ex does NOT mean you won't get back together. It's just a minor bump in the road and you will have to adapt.   

For example, you reach out to your ex after the no contact rule and don’t get a response or you end up reaching out and getting into a fight with them.  

Why? What caused these reactions/ no interactions? 

2 Factors;
Perception 
What’s in it for them 

If you can understand these two factors you can recover from a bad interaction with your ex.  

Perception: How your ex perceives you at the moment of the bad interaction. Your ex may perceive you the way he did during the breakup. All those negative emotions and thoughts are still there. He still thinks your controlling, obsessive, jealous or whatever your negative behaviors were at the end of your relationship.  

But you can change this perception by showing him/her with action that you have changed. It's not enough to tell him/her you're not controlling anymore but show your ex by refraining from certain words like "You need to..." etc.  

What’s in it for them: We tend to be self-interested by nature. So, if your text was about you and your interests, he may either ignore you or respond negatively/neutral. This goes for anyone you talk to. If you talk about your interests only and not theirs, they will not be that interested in that conversation.  

Next time you reach out to your ex make sure you plan ahead. Come up with a list of his interests and try to make the text as appealing to him as possible. If you understand these two factors you can reverse engineer things and potentially turn things in your favor.   

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