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How to Earn Priceless Respect

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Channel: Trenius Henderson · 2016 · Howto & Style

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1. Don’t let emotions get the best of you

To earn respect, you must be willing to remain calm and collected regardless of the situation. If you lose your cool and allow emotions to take over, it will be much more difficult for others to view you in a positive light. Instead, follow these characteristics of an outgoing person:

You shouldn’t react emotionally during an argument. A respected person knows to keep their cool when others cannot. While another person may raise their voice to place emphasis on a point or to accuse you of something, you respond in a calm manner. When you do so, you can defuse the intense situation and earn the respect of others.
You should also remain calm in tense situations. For example, say your work environment is stressful. Given this environment, it would be easy for you to lose your cool. However, by maintaining a level head, speaking in a calm voice and not allowing emotion to take over, you show command over the situation. This will attract others to you because they see leadership qualities in you.
2. Show that you are a leader

People will listen and follow others whom they respect. With this in mind, by showing natural leadership tendencies, it will make it easy for you to earn the respect of others. Here are some great leadership qualities to have:

You possess great communication skills. This means you have the innate ability to speak to others on a wide variety of topics. Further, you are able to engage the listener with your words. To accomplish this, you should refrain from telling dirty jokes, using poor language such as cuss words or yelling. Instead, you are warm, friendly and speak with knowledge on the conversation topic. Furthermore, leaders don’t speak uncertainty by using words such as “uh”. They also don’t try to end silences with filler material. They are confident no matter what the situation entails.
Leaders also take pride in their appearance. While you don’t have to blow through yours or your parent’s bank account to do this, it’s important to dress the part. Make sure your clothes are clean, your hairstyle is at least somewhat current and be sure to practice proper hygiene. This means cleaning your nails, trimming facial hair and making sure your teeth are clean. You cannot expect others to respect you if you don’t show them you care about your appearance.
Another trait leaders share is in their body language. To be a good leader, you walk with an upright posture, establish confident eye contact with those you speak to and maintain a steady voice throughout the conversation. By doing this, you attract others with your personality and confidence. Conversely, if you speak quietly with your shoulders huddled and you look down at your shoes, people will perceive you as shy. It is much harder for people to express confidence in you if you don’t have confidence in yourself.
Overall, leaders exhibit these skills naturally. This means they don’t try to act confident they just are. Now, this may take years of experience to master for you. It did for me. However, when I started taking the time to speak to others and practice these communication skills, I was amazed at how much confidence I gained. It also had an effect on those around me, as I noticed they would ask for my feedback on certain topics. Even if you have to take baby steps to improve your communication skills such as watching yourself in the mirror while speaking or recording a conversation, it’s a good first step towards gaining confidence.http://socialpronow.com/blog/5-tricks-that-will-make-people-respect-you-more/

Written By: David Morin

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