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50 Traits Of Narcissistic Abuse Syndrome Thriving

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Channel: Mark Smith Family Tree Life Coaching · 2016 · People & Blogs

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Mark E. Smith, MSW is the Founder and Director of Family Tree Life Coaching. He previously worked as a highly respected therapist and author in the Indianapolis area for 32+ years. He now practices as a Life and Relationship Coach. He offers coaching for individuals, couples, families, family businesses, executive leaders, pastors, and therapists. He has world class coaching expertise in Affair Recovery, Relationship Issues, Narcissistic Abuse Syndrome, Sexual Addiction, Abuse, Trauma, Complex PTSD, Anxiety, Mid-Life Issues, Shame and Abandonment Issues. If you need a safe, courageous, cutting, marriage-jolting healer, he is your guy. You can contact Mark Smith at [email protected] and 317-507-8866.

Mark discusses the following topics in the new full video.  'The truth will set you free – great to be free from cognitive dissonance
I thought that I was reactive and difficult to get along with – I am nice and sweet
Have healed so many deep, infantile family of origin issues
Not a victim
Isn’t primarily about betrayal – it is about misperception
Accept the human condition
Narcissistic Abuse is a Wound to Living Tissue
When you are with a NARC you are in great danger
It goes so fast
Still SHOCKED after 11 months
There are millions of us!!!
Empaths
Stamina – could not make a video last week
Deep Processing - chemical changes
Juicing
Exercise
Having a voice - complaint
Dating
Financial Recovery – “Life isn’t about staying out of the rough, it is about digging out of the hole that you are in.”
Much easier to thrive without supporting a parasite 
Anniversary Date Triggers
On Thriving
Flying Monkeys
I love working with the freshly shattered folks
Empathy
It is treatable
Psychopath Free – Jackson MacKenzie
You still need lots of rest
Body less fragile – hands don’t shake anymore
Horrific mind fuck
The loss of family members
You learn to trust the world more – CVS
You learn to spot NARC’s immediately
Clowns - cartoon characters, immature, babies, cowards
Not willing to ever have a conversation
A great NAS therapist doesn’t need to have known about NAS
My home is less haunted every day
Liked losing 53 pounds
Listening to novels again
Gratitude
No need for closure any longer
The #1 Health Crisis In America Today
The Power of YouTube & a Message – 10,000 subscribers and 1 million views
Everything happens for a reason – “I could not be here helping you if I didn’t go through what I went through.”
You have the confidence that you can survive anything
It stomps the arrogance out of you
Wrong place at the Wrong Time with the Wrong People for the Wrong Reasons
Ironically going through NAS has been the best thing that ever happened to my career
Thank my friends – (Peg, Fred, Rinda, Michael, Jeremiah, Matt) my kids, Jarrett especially, my staff, Paul Hartman, Onsite, friends from Onsite, Shannon Groh, Debra Ward, Mr. Paulie
A message to Betsy – 
Thank you - you made me better
You were my best teacher
It was my responsibility to see you as you really were
You no longer fool me at all
I do not care about you at all
I pity you
You are a fool to walk out on a man like me – emotional depth, vulnerable, kindness, recovery, sweet, genuine, alive, smart, successful, honest, integrity, humility, funny, I help people, I inspired people, good physical shape, financially blessed, can take car of a woman/family 
Go be who you really are
You did all concerned a horrible disservice by pretending to be someone you never were 
I wish you RECOVERY
If you get in genuine recovery some day you have a lot of amends to make

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