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It’s Time For You To Officially Take The World By Storm!

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Channel: Mark Smith Family Tree Life Coaching · 2017 · People & Blogs

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Mark Smith seeks to awaken the powerful warrior in you to fight back after narcissistic abuse in his inspirational video  'It’s Time For You To Take The World By Storm!'

Mark E. Smith, MSW is the Founder and Director of Family Tree Life Coaching. He previously worked as a highly respected therapist and author in the Indianapolis area for 32+ years. He now practices as a Life and Relationship Coach. He offers coaching for individuals, couples, families, family businesses, executive leaders, pastors, and therapists. He has world class coaching expertise in Affair Recovery, Relationship Issues, Narcissistic Abuse Syndrome, Sexual Addiction, Abuse, Trauma, Complex PTSD, Anxiety, Mid-Life Issues, Shame and Abandonment Issues. If you need a safe, courageous, cutting, marriage-jolting healer, he is your guy. You can contact Mark Smith at [email protected] and 317-507-8866.

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• Question – how to fight back/survive/overcome after experiencing narcissistic abuse by proxy?

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“If you want to recover from narcissistic abuse you have got to be RELENTLESS!  Most of us go through life with our brakes on, frequently holding back due to fear and PTSD.  Many narcissistic abuse suffers will go to their graves still holding back because of their past woundings, their past defeats and their past public shamings and their overwhelming PTSD symptoms. We look back and we tell ourselves “well it didn't work out then, so it probably won't work out now”.

People who overcome narcissistic abuse have a driving hunger, an ability to face defeat again and again without giving up.  We are all about defeating defeat!  When you're that kind of hungry you don't care about the ‘facts’.  You don't care about the odds.  If there something that you need to be safe and you're hungry for it you got to do WHATEVER IS necessary.
And when you've done the best you can and that's not enough, whatever is required to mount a comeback, to dig yourself out of that hole, to defeat narcissistic abuse and to ‘Become a Living Nightmare to Your Narcissist’.
You’ve got to harness your recovery process!  You've got to be so RELENTLESS that you're always looking for a way to get through, you're always looking for a way to  genuinely love and nurture yourself, you’re always looking for a way that you can win and you’re always looking for a way that you can strike a telling blow.  There is greatness in you!   You've got to learn how to tune out the critics on the outside and even more importantly, the critic on the inside.
Don't give up on yourself.  Never give in to hopelessness, shame, powerlessness, PTSD, flying monkeys, fear, poverty, paralysis or defeat!  You've got to sell yourself every day on the power of your recovery process.  You've got to sell yourself every day what you were doing, on your calling, on the goal that you have to reach. You've got to sell yourself on yourself every day.  
It takes courage to act. It takes courage to start all over again, when you have been defeated. It takes courage to persist. When you step into your fears and continue to push yourself to go on, something happens for you, it will enable you to transcend yourself. There is a HELL YES around here somewhere and you can continue until you find it. Don’t go where the path may lead, go where there is no path and leave a trail.
This is your day and nothing out there is going to stop you!  Don’t go to the graveyard with your music still in you.  Do what you do MASSIVELY!  !  Don’t go to the graveyard with your music still in you, your book still in you, your dreams unrealized, without ever experiencing a healthy relationship.  Do what you are called to do MASSIVELY! 

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