HELP A BROTHER OUT
2,275 views · Published 26 September 2011 · 14:59 · Indexed 8 November 2026
Channel: muchlovefromky · 2011 · People & Blogs
Hey Much Love I'm gonna let you know this is gonna be kind of a lengthy email... But I was wondering if you could Help A "Brother" Out this time?? Over a year ago... I met this dude online on adam4adam which I'm sure you might have heard of... As we were getting to know each other we realized we were both from the same state which is not the state we live in right now. So, we realized we had something in common and we built on our friendship OR what I THOUGHT was a friendship! Anyhoo! Over the course of our so-called friendship, because I had been attracted to him... I flirted with him a lot. I wanted to date him and actually approached him about us dating at one point of time, but he claimed he was "Talking to Someone". Although he was (supposedly) talking to someone... He would always flirt back with me... When we would hang out he would sit really close to me, so I felt like I was getting mixed signals and with me being very aggressive, I ignored the fact that he was talking to someone and continued my pursuit... Nothing sexually ever happened between us... UNTIL... one day, we both went out and had been drinking. It was very obvious from the start of the night that we both had "getting it in" in mind! In the past, he had let me do MOST of the flirting because, of course, he CLAIMED to be "Talking to Someone" ... When we finally got back to my house... we had sex and it was very good I might add... BUT... it was UNPROTECTED ... the very next day, he texted my phone and says, "What happened last night???" ... At first, I thought he was joking, but as the day progressed I realized that he was serious. This sent up RED FLAGS for me!!!! It wasn't as if he was passed out during the sexual encounter ... he had a full erection and he also was fully into the sexual act as well as I was. We both penetrated each other to be specific (versatile). Over the course of 3 days, I told him I felt it was very strange that he acted like he didn't remember what happened a few nights before and I suggested we both get tested for HIV together. He REFUSED to get tested with me which was even more FRUSTRATING and I was getting angrier by the minute! Because I wouldn't stop pestering him about it, he told me that he would go get tested ALONE and bring me the results. This fuckin' FOOL brings me over a FABRICATED HIV test with some clinic that I've never seen or heard of before where we live. But because I was trying to give him the benefit of the doubt, I believed him UNTIL I looked at the date and it was off by one year! At this time, we were sitting in his car and I questioned him about it the date... He continued to LIE to my face about it. So, the next day I pleaded with him to be honest with me and he tells me some STORY about how several months back he was date-raped and he's not sure what happened because he met some dude at a hotel and he woke up the next day oblivious to anything that happened the night before. He was crying... saying how tragic the situation was for him and HOW he didn't want to RElive what happened those several months ago and he just DOESN'T want to talk about it ... He said he had NEVER BEEN tested for HIV before and he just doesn't' want to deal with the situation AT ALL! I WENT OFF, and EXPLAINED that he was playing with other people's lives and he was a COWARD for not getting tested!! Just this past weekend, I met another dude online that happens to know this dude! He questioned me about how I knew this guy and when I told him about what happened, he basically in so many ways let me know that THIS dude ALREADY KNEW he was HIV POSITIVE!!!!!!!!! YALL I COULD NOT PUT THE WHOLE EMAIL IN THE INFO BOX SORRY
