Why do people go from happily married to divorced?

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Channel: KULAN POST · 2018 · People & Blogs

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Why do people go from happily married to divorced?

Marriages are made in Heaven, but all it takes is a few misunderstandings and the D word to break it up.
How or better yet, why do people go from happily married to divorced? 
 No one wants to get divorced.
Surely no single mind could imagine all the possible reasons a relationship may crumble. 
Yet it is incredible how many causes of divorce manage to stay within a few fixed and historically common lines. 
There are many - perceived - reasons for divorce. 
Here I've listed the most common reasons that contribute to marital breakdown 
 
1. Money: 
Many statistics have found that money is the number one cause of marital strife,  across the globe and it’s little wonder why,  considering the terrible consequences that exist if it is managed poorly.
 
2. Bedroom Issues: 
Sexual incomepatibility is a real issue between couples and will definitely cause “trouble in paradise” 



3. Infidelity 
This is an unforgivable act to most partners, and the whole institution of marriage is predicated on the avoidance of it.

Most muslim divorce victims rather see their husbands marry other women than commiting adultery as far as Islam is concerned.


4. Inflated Expectations
No one is perfect, which is a lesson we’ve learned well in our heads but not necessarily our hearts. 

Couples should know that non of them can read each other’s mind and bring everything you are looking for to the table without you working for it as well.
 
5. Poor Communication 
No relationship can survive without regular communication, and problems that are left unresolved merely fester into resentment and anger when they could have been easily solved at the time.
 
6. Drug 
Drugs can hide the person we love from us and contribute to all the above problems.
 
7. Violence 
No one should live in a house, in which they feel unsafe, and children most of all suffer from parents who cause abuse to their spouses or children.

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