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The 5 Most Empowering Things I've Ever Learned in My Life

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Channel: MyNonLeatherLife · 2018 · Entertainment

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1. women should have casual sex with zero hang ups

Contrary to what all adults told me, advice I read in books and magazines gave out, and the subtle messages I picked up from our slut shaming culture, the more casual sex I had the more empowered I felt. Why is this? Because women are meant to have billions of options and have zero need to be desperate when it comes to male attention and affection. I often artificially made a prison for myself by thinking this one guy who wasn't treating me well was my only option, stupidly not realizing I had literally a red sea of guys who would have LEAPT at the chance to have a casual encounter with me at whatever terms I set. This is not to brag, just a fact for literally all women as I explain in a following bullet point. 

2. Hotness actually does come from within. 

Well beauty may be skin deep but hotness comes from within. As you can see if you ever watch dancers on youtube or instagram, certain dancers shine. It's not because of what they look like but by their energy when they're dancing. Their energy is a combination of factors, including how true they stay to their own authentic personality cause that allows them to have power and ease and rawness, whereas people who are faking look awkward and uncool. Anyway, no matter what age, size or how far off from the norm of societal beauty you are, you can and will be beautiful if you learn how to channel your own authentic hotness and realize that you're stupid for thinking that all that matters is how close to barbie or kim kardashian you look. 

3. There will never be a shortage of men for any woman no matter what

I can't think of one type of woman that won't have throngs of admirers lining up for her. Never worry about your hotness or how fat you are or some deformity you have, cause men aren't gonna care. I learned this in the strip club too, that men are gonna think you're hot honestly no matter what you think you look like so never stress about it. 

4. How to Have fun alone

If you think its weird to eat alone or spend weeks alone, you need to learn how to do this. I learned a lot of tips, tricks and hacks for being alone cause I was alone so much. I don't fear being alone and that is very empowering. 

5. Your diet affects your health

Going vegan (healthy vegan eating fruits and vegetables en masse) can save your life

my vegan blog: www.mynonleatherlife.com
my vegan fb page: mynonleatherlife
my ig: greenelover
my personal blog: drburnshead.com

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