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You Were Traumatized NOT Victimized By Narcissistic Abuse

2,595 views · Published 16 February 2017 · 30:26 · Indexed 23 October 2026

Channel: Mark Smith Family Tree Life Coaching · 2017 · People & Blogs

In one of his most popular videos, Mark Smith explains that while we were certainly brutally and viciously traumatized by monsters as adults, that is due to our deep unresolved childhood woundedness that caused us to attract and cooperated with hurtful, unsafe narcissists.

Mark E. Smith, MSW is the Founder and Director of Family Tree Life Coaching. He previously worked as a highly respected therapist and author in the Indianapolis area for 32+ years. He now practices as a Life and Relationship Coach. He offers coaching for individuals, couples, families, family businesses, executive leaders, pastors, and therapists. He has world class coaching expertise in Affair Recovery, Relationship Issues, Narcissistic Abuse Syndrome, Sexual Addiction, Abuse, Trauma, Complex PTSD, Anxiety, Mid-Life Issues, Shame and Abandonment Issues. If you need a safe, courageous, cutting, marriage-jolting healer, he is your guy. You can contact Mark Smith at [email protected] and 317-507-8866.

He covers the following topics in this provocative video...

• Bare With Me - I Will Explain THE MEANING AND THE PURPOSE OF LOVE

• I Would Never Blame The Victim

• Titles Of My Videos - 'Narcissistic Monsters With Human Faces', 'Narcissistic Abuse = Soul Murder & Heart Rape' And 'Recruiting Monsters, Predators, Narcissists, Vampires Or Sociopaths To Shatter, Destroy & Heal You'

• I Wish NAS Was Named 'Cluster B Disorder Trauma Syndrome'

• My Choices - in a relationship by the 2nd date, Oblivious and Workaholic, Settled For Emotional Abuse, Turned a Blind Eye To Who She Was, When Back With Her After Putting Her Out Of My House Three Times

• Ask Yourself What My Of Origin Issues Your Relationship Was Re-Enacting

• Love & Marriage Was Designed To Make You Fricken Miserable

• Wounds/Defenses

• Mother Nature Has 3 Agendas

• And 3 Criteria's For The Tool Designed To Cut The Walls Open

• Sparrow Story

1. This Paradigm Shift Is The Antidote That Takes The Infection Out Of The Wound
2. It Helps The World And Your Entire History Make Sense
3. It Empowers You And Makes The World Seems As Safe AS It Really Is
4. It Puts You On Your Guard For The Next Relationship - Recovery Dating
5. It Puts You On Your Guard In Your Relationships With Family Of Origin Members
6. It Drives You To Do Your Work Like Nothing Else Ever Has
7. It Greatly Reduces Your Pain And Suffering (And The Suffering Of Those Around YOU)
8. It Helps You Move On With Your Life
9. It Releases You From Fantasies Of Revenge
10. It Is The Truth

Getting To Gratitude, Forgiveness And Thriving

You Were Traumatized NOT Victimized By Narcissistic Abuse

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