ARE WE GETTING DIVORCED?! | MARRIAGE COUNSELING UPDATE + WHY I TALK ABOUT OUR STRUGGLES ONLINE

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Channel: Creating in Chaos · 2018 · People & Blogs

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Broken: adjective –
a. separated into parts, damaged, shattered
b. disrupted by change
c. made weak
d. not working properly
e. not kept or honored
f. not complete or full
g. full of obstacles

Are any of these an accurate description for your marriage? For me at least two hit the nail on the head but I am not on the way out to the divorce attorney. In fact my husband and I recently celebrated our eighth wedding anniversary. I’d be lying if I said that it was the easiest years of my life and it would also be equally deceptive for me to act like it wasn’t the most joyous time. The truth is there are times I can see how walking away could be the path I would have taken, but I didn’t. I don’t feel that divorce is the easy choice; I don’t feel that divorce is the right or wrong choice. I do feel that divorce is a choice and it is only up to the two people who made the commitment in the first place. However, I do think recognizing if a marriage is broken is a start to helping make that choice.

Repairs to marriages can come in many forms. You can seek professional help with a counselor, turn to your trusted member of the clergy, read some self help books, or just go it on your own. In the case of my marriage we do a combination of things. We made a commitment to each other to try and repair our marriage whenever we thought it was broken. We are constantly working on it and mending it. To an outsider that might sound horrible but to us it works. We recognize that anything that has been put through as much stress as our marriage will eventually crack.

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