Staying In Your Own Lane🚥 (HOW TO DEAL WITH OTHERS OPINION)

138 views · Published 5 September 2016 · 4:27 · Indexed 28 October 2026

Channel: Trenius Henderson · 2016 · Howto & Style

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Here are some steps you can take to keep you focused on what you want:

Notice you are in a state of fight, flight, or freeze, take a deep breath, focusing on the exhale, and ask yourself, “What can I say or do right now for the greater good?” or “What can I say or do right now that’s of highest service?” or “How can I help?” The answer that comes to you shifts your focus to one of vision and purpose, curiosity and possibility.

Notice when you are focused on what you don’t want, exhale deeply, and re-invoke the state of wonder. Before you go to bed, take a shower, exercise, or do something you love, take a moment to wonder about what you could want, let it go, and notice the ideas that come to you.

Before you make a telephone call, write an email, have a conversation, or open the door to go into a meeting or go home at night, take a moment to ask yourself what truly matters to you, what is the result you want. 

As an individual, make it a practice to think about what you want, what truly matters to you, that brings about a life well lived for you and your family. (You may want to take the free Managing Thought Self-Assessment to help you with this.)

As an organization, make it a practice to think about what truly matters to each of your constituents – your customers, suppliers, employees, and investors. Think about what you do, how you do it, how the organization can be of highest and best service and richly rewarded. Think about what resources, human and otherwise, are required to execute this vision. Be sure to think in the short-term and long-term.

From these ideas, choose what’s significant and generate more ideas, choose what’s significant, etc. to hone in on what you truly want and get to the point of seeing yourself in this new view.
Tell the story. You know you are focused on what you want when you can fully describe what you are doing and how you are being in the moments of your day that moves you in the direction of what you want. When every member of your family or your organization can tell the story of how what they do contributes to their individual success and to your family or organizations success. http://www.managingthought.com/forwardthinkinggentlereminder/volume8/focusonwhatyouwant

When you can tell the story of how each asset you own, each dollar spent, and each resource that you use, human or otherwise, contributes to the results, the fulfillment of what you want.


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