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How to Deal With Male Friends Hitting On You

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I鈥檓 going to tell you how to have friends with guys without it being sexual. I鈥檝e been that guy who tried to hit on his hot female friend. A lot of guys are needy as fuck. A lot of guys don鈥檛 get laid.

It鈥檚 like expecting a hungry guy to hold your burger for you. It鈥檚 very difficult. They鈥檙e going to try and eat the burger. It鈥檚 difficult, especially when you鈥檙e a beautiful woman.

As long as they鈥檙e not perverted and not sexually intrusive, you want to treat them as kids. You can鈥檛 take it seriously. The best way to handle it is like talking to your little brother. 

When a guy starts hitting on you, you鈥檒l notice yourself getting defensive. The first thing you should do is not get offended by it. They鈥檙e trying hard not to hit on you.

Observe that defensive reaction in you.

Another thing is to be playful with how they react to you. The last thing you want to do is to get defensive. After a while, a guy鈥檚 going to stop hitting on you.

You have to keep relaxing and deflecting. Notice your reaction and keep deflecting it. After a while, the guy鈥檚 going to accept being in the friend zone.

He may try hitting on you, but you have to stay centered and relaxed.

It鈥檚 almost inevitable that a guy wouldn鈥檛 hit on you. Sometimes, the guy is a good friend, but he just has to get used to your beauty.

Talk about other guys with him. Ask him to help you with other guys.

It鈥檚 unrealistic to ask him not to have feelings for you. It鈥檚 something that鈥檚 going to happen. You just have to expect that. Play nice and treat them as children.

The best thing a girl did to me was to acknowledge it by being cool with it. There鈥檚 not much you could do.

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